By Nicole Eisnor and Jennifer Preble, Bay Path University, Parents2Partners interns. Nicole studies child psychology and works with young children in center based and home settings. Jennifer brings more than 15 years of experience working in daycare centers.
Starting daycare is a big change for children and parents. A little preparation helps everyone feel safe and confident.
Why consistency matters
Consistency gives children a sense of security.
- Learn the center’s schedule. If it differs from your routine at home, adjust nap and meal times gradually before the first day.
- Label everything. Clearly mark clothing, bottles, and other belongings.
- Keep communication open. Share questions and concerns with staff so they can support your child’s adjustment.
Preparing your child
- Practice independent sleep. Help your child learn to self soothe and fall asleep on their own, so naps go smoothly when teachers are busy.
- Don’t tiptoe during naps. Classrooms can be noisy, so let your child get used to some background sound.
- Ask about bottles. Some centers do not allow bottle warmers. Ask ahead, and test at home whether your baby will take a room temperature bottle.
- Build independence. Practice dressing, putting on shoes, and opening lunch containers. These skills make busy classroom routines easier.
Choosing the right center
Weigh your budget, your family’s needs, and what each center offers. Questions to ask:
- Do you have an open door policy? Can I visit anytime?
- What is your illness policy, and when can a child return after being sick?
- How and when can I meet with teachers?
- Can specialists or therapists visit my child at the center?
- What is the teacher to child ratio in each room?